Toast Masters - CC Project 3 Speech – Title: Our Beliefs - Our Lives - 9th April 2011

William James said “We achieve only when we believe in our Thoughts, Abilities and Actions. Beliefs are the key to unlock our Lives”.

I say “Negative Beliefs are the key to lock our lives forever!”

Good Evening Madam Toast Master, Fellow Toastmasters and Distinguished Guests;

It was 1980- The year when I was studying 3^rd Standard.  My School was in a small locality called Ammapet in Salem District of Tamil Nadu.

Being the eldest son, my parents wanted me to DO WELL in my Studies.  To fulfill my parent’s dreams, I studied hard and secured I Rank in 2^nd Standard.   To my surprise, my father presented me my favourite sweet – Burfy.

When the School Vacation got over after Two Months in June 1980, I was very eager to go to School and study hard to get I Rank and my dream was to get a Box full of Burfies. 

On the third day of the school reopening, the Maths Teacher came and took our Class.  I was feeling very sad.  I saw a New Maths Teacher in the place of my favourite teacher - Sharada Madam.   At the end of the year, when the results came, my Rank was reduced to 10^th, due to a low score in Mathematics.  

It was a hot day in June 1990. I joined SJRC College for Graduation. On the first day, I went to the college early and had sat at the Front Desk.

Slowly, new students entered the class room.  A short, thin, dark skinned person sat beside me. I introduced myself and asked his name.  He did not open up. With lot of hesitation he mentioned his name as Raju.

He was very shy and reserved.  He would rarely speak and avoided people and crowded places.   His attitude remained the same, throughout those 3 years. 

Mamatha and Sunitha were best friends. They knew each other for more than ten years as they were colleagues.  Another colleague - Nalini got married and after marriage she stayed in the same locality as Sunitha.

Being from the same locality, Nalini and Sunitha came to office in the same cab.   After three months, Mamatha stopped talking Sunitha due to some issues with Nalini. Their friendship of Ten years broke!

Dear Toastmasters, such instances happen in our Day today Lives. Why is it so important?

Because it creates a BELIEF SYSTEM in us about our Attitude, Skills and Relationships.  It might happen directly or indirectly.

In my case, my affection towards my Teacher made me like Mathematics.  When another teacher came, in her place, it influenced me negatively and my liking towards Maths also got hampered.

In the case of Raju, it so happened that one day his uncle came home and spoke to him. Raju did not open up. His uncle said “Raju why are you so Shy and Reserved ? Subsequently, in his School, Teacher asked Raju to answer a question. He did not open up. Teacher said ‘Raju why are so shy and reserved?

These instances indirectly created a BELIEF in Raju that ‘He is Shy and Reserved’ so much so that he is still unable to overcome his reserved nature.

In the friendship of Mamatha and Sunitha. Sunitha got close to Nalini. Nalini was jealous about sunitha’s friendship with Mamatha.  She made false allegations on Mamatha. Sunitha believed Nalini.  One day their friendship broke due to false beliefs created by Nalini about Mamatha.

Dear Toastmasters, now we know how Negative Beliefs impacts our Lives.  Negative Believes may be created by us due to Circumstances or by somebody consciously to discourage our Spirit.

It is important to identify our Negative Beliefs in respect of our Personality, Relationships and Skills and take action to overcome them.

It is possible with imbibing Positive Thoughts, Feelings and Action. Positive Beliefs creates Mellifluous Life and we deserve it.

Dear Toastmasters, all of us are already on the path of Positivity.  Can u guess that? 

We have taken a step to Overcome our Negative Beliefs.. Our Negative belief about our “Speaking and Communication Skills”.  That is why, we are here at Toastmasters.

I conclude with a quote of Tony Robbins:

Beliefs have the Power to Create and the Power to Destroy. Human beings have the awesome ability to take any Experience of their lives and create a Meaning.

Back to you Madam Toast Master.

Handwriting Summer Camps for Kids & Adults - Bangalore - 2011

1) Handwriting Improvement Summer Camp in Bangalore - 2011.

Any person aged above 8 years can join our courses and improve their hand-writing. School Students studying III, IV, V, VI, VII, VIII, IX, X, XI, XII of State, CBSE or ICSE Syllabus. SSLC, I & II P.U.C. of State Board.

College students studying any Graduation in the field of Science, Commerce, Arts, Law, Marketing, Engineering, Dental, Medical, Computer Science, both directly or though Correspondence Courses including BBM, BBA, BCA, B.COM, B.Sc., B.A., BE., LL.B., LL.M., MA., M.Sc., M.Com, MCA, MBA, etc., can also improve their Hand-writing and other skills.

Course/Service Title	Total Duration	To Whom	Days	Class Duration	Fees
1) HANDWRITING CLASSES - 30 DAYS with MEMORY, CONCENTRATION AND CONFIDENCE IMPROVEMENT	30 HOURS	KIDS > 2ND STANDARD & ADULTS	30	ONE HOUR	Rs. 1,950/-
2) HANDWRITING CLASSES - 30 DAYS	30 HOURS	KIDS > 2nd STANDARD & ADULTS	30	ONE HOUR	Rs.1,450/-
3) HANDWRITING CLASSES - 20 DAYS	20	KIDS > 5TH STD AND ADULTS	20	ONE HOUR	Rs.950/-
4) HANDWRITING CLASSES - WEEKEND - SATURDAY & SUNDAY	20 or 30 HOURS	KIDS > 8TH STD & ADULTS.	10 OR 15 DAYS	TWO HOURS	Rs. 950/- OR Rs. 1,450/- OR Rs.1,950/-
5) HANDWRITING CLASSES - FAST TRACK	10 HOURS	COLLEGE STUDENTS & ADULTS.	5 Days - Two Hours. 10 Days - One Hour.	5 Days - Two Hours. 10 Days - One Hour.	Rs.950/-
HANDWRITING CLASSES - 2 DAYS - INTENSE	10 HOURS	COLLEGE STUDENTS & ADULTS	2	Morning - 2.5 Hours, Evening - 2.5 Hours.

2)  Memory, Concentration and Self- Confidence Improvement - Summer Camps -  2011 - Kids above 2nd Standard and Adults.

1) 30 Days Handwriting + Memory + Concentration
    and Self Confidence Improvement Course                              -    Rs.1,950/-

Concentration: Generally, students find difficulty to concentrate on their studies or to do any 
task for a longer duration with same amount of interest and zeal from the beginning till 
the end. There are various reasons for their inability to concentrate. There are 
people who completely lack concentration and there are people who has some 
percentage of difficulties. Hence, individually assessing their problem and 
giving remedial measures for better CONCENTRATION.

Memory: A strong and better memory is very important to any individual. Especially, 
school and college students must possess better memory so as to answer the questions in 
their Examinations very well and to recollect what they studied. Even middle and old 
aged persons find difficulty to remember or recollect things which happened in recent 
past. There are instances where a student is very good in answering questions orally 
and finds very difficult to write the same in the similar way when it comes to Tests 
and Examinations. There are various reasons for this too. This course would 

enable them to possess a curious mindset to give importance to details.

Self-Confidence: Any job or work requires a person to do it confidently and to the  best of his ability. Presence of Self-Confidence and absence of fears play an important  role in achieving what one wants. Especially, School and college students even if they  possess very good qualities of a student or being very studious help them, presence  of lack of confidence will play spoilsport. It is very important that they possess the  quality of self-confidence which will enable them to show the strength of character  and certainly it will help them in their Examinations. For example, even if a  person possess good concentration level and a better memory, if he lacks  self-confidence, his performance in tests and Exams will differ due to absence of  confidence.

Calligraphy Summer Camp 2011 :

Course/Service Title	Total Duration	To Whom	Days	Class Duration	Fees
1) CALLIGRAPHY CLASSES - BASIC	ONE MONTH	KIDS > 9 YEARS & ADULTS	WEEKLY 2 CLASSES	2 HOURS	Rs.1250/-
2) CALLIGRAPHY CLASSES - INTERMEDIATE	ONE MONTH	KIDS > 9 YEARS & ADULTS	WEEKLY 2 DAYS	2 HOURS	Rs.1250/-
3) CALLIGRAPHY CLASSES - ADVANCED	ONE MONTH	KIDS >14 YEARS & ADULTS	WEEKLY 2 DAYS	TWO HOURS	Rs.1950/-

3) Kannada Handwriting Summer Camp 2011 :

Course/Service Title	Total Duration	To Whom	Days	Class Duration	Fees
1) KANNADA HANDWRITING CLASSES - 20 DAYS	20 HOURS	KIDS ABOVE 5TH STD & ADULTS	20	ONE HOUR	Rs.1250/-
2) KANNADA HANDWRITING CLASSES - 30 DAYS	30 HOURS	KIDS ABOVE 3RD STD & ADULTS	30	ONE HOUR	Rs.1950/-
3) HANDWRITING CLASSES - FAST TRACK	20 HOURS	COLLEGE STUDENTS & ADULTS	10	TWO HOURS	Rs.1250/-

Kids Summer Camps by Mr.Bhashkar R – a Leading 

Handwriting Analyst & Expert in Vijayanagar, 

Bangalore, Karnataka, India, Asia.

Contact us thru Mobile, SMS, E-mail, Postal / Courier:

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Kids and Adults from the Following areas have joined our earlier Summer Camps and benefited and you too Join our Summer Camps 2011 and benefit.

Our Summer Camps in Calligraphy Classes, Handwriting Improvement Classes, Personality Development Classes, Handwriting Analysis Programmes, Signature Analysis Consultations, Lucky Signatures are obtained by people from all walks of life and from various areas of Bangalore such as Kempegowda Nagar, Chowdeshwari Nagar, Yelahanka Satellite Town, Jakkuru, Thanisandra, Byatarayanapura, Kodigehalli, Vidyaranyapura, Dodda Bommasandra, Kuvempunagar, Shettihalli, T Dasarahalli, Jalahalli, JP Park, Sanjaynagar, Ganga Nagar, Hebbal, Nagawara, HBR Layout, Horamavu, Ramamurthy nagar, Banaswadi, Gangenahalli, Mattikere, Yeshwanthapura, Peenya Industrial Area, Nandini Layout, Malleswaram, Jayachamarajendranagar, Vijnanapura, KR Puram, Basavanapura, Hudi, Devasandra, CV Raman Nagar, Jayamahal, Rajamahal Guttahalli, Kadu Malleshwar Subramanyanagar, Mahalakshmipuram, Rajagopalnagar, Shankar Matt, Gayithrinagar, Sarvagnanagar, Marathahalli, HAL- Airport, Jeevan Bhima Nagar, Halsoor, Shivaji nagar, Vasanthnagar, Gandhinagar, Okalipuram, Prakashnagar, Rajajinagar, Basaveshwaranagar, Nagarbhavi, Kamakshipalya, Govindarajnagar, Agrahara Dasarahalli, Shivanagara, Chikpet, Sampangiramnagar, Shantalanagar, Domlur, Shanthinagar, Sudham nagar, Cottonpet, Binnipet, Kempapura Agrahara, Vijayanagar, Hosahalli, Marenahalli, Maruthi Mandir, Mudalapalya, Nagarabhavi, – Jnana Bharathi, Ullalu, Nayandahalli, Attiguppe, Hampinagar / R.P.C.Layout, Bapujinagar, Jagajivanaramnagar, Rayapuram, Chamrajapet, Jayanagar, Basavanagudi, Hanumanthanagar, Sri nagar, Deepanjalinagar, Kengeri, Rajarajeshwarinagar, Girinagar, Kathriguppe and JP Nagar.

LOVE MARRIAGES - SPEECH 2 - TOAST MASTERS - BANGALORE

“Maine Pyar Kiya” – I Hope most of you have seen this movie of Salman Khan.

A Beautiful Love Story of a Rich Boy and a Middle Class Girl showing emotions of Love and Sacrifice.

“When the Love is Genuine, Parents may Accept it.” 

Good Evening Madam Toast Master, Fellow Toast Masters and Distinguished Guests.

Falling in Love with someone is a Wonderful experience.  Isn’t Nice to have Smart, Attractive and Wealthy person as our Spouse?  Added to it, if they are Caring, Sharing and Understanding, it will be Superb.

“My friend of many years – Satyanarayana happened to be a Lucky person.  He met Geetha at a Typing Institute; both of them fell in love with each other. After 2 years of courtship, they got married.

We friends helped them get married and settle down.  They are leading a Happy and Harmonious Life with their children. I think “Marriages are really made in Heaven”.  

It was a Rainy Day in August 2005. I was in the High Court. An unknown Couple approached me. They wanted information to get “Divorce” on Mutual Consent.  I looked at them and found that they were made for Each Other.  I wondered why they wanted Divorce! 

I was reluctant to speak to them.  Generally, people would come to court premises or approach an advocate for Free Information. (Smile) They  mentioned that they were in difficulty and needed my help.

Their story went thus:  

Both of them were Software Engineers; Colleagues; working in an IT Company.  They were in Love for about 1 year and decided to get married with their Parent’s consent.

The girl’s parents objected. The boy had no Father and his mother was dependent on him.   Despite the opposition, they got married. 

Their Employer insisted one of them to quit the job, due to their policy.  The wife quit her job.  She joined another company.  Unfortunately, both had different shifts. This continued for more than six months. 

The husband and his mother wanted the wife to quit the job. However, she refused. Because of this, the husband became furious.

In the meanwhile, the wife’s mother fell seriously ill. She wanted to visit them.  However, the Husband forbid her from going, due to the Insult and Humiliation meted before their marriage. This created a deeper rift in their relationship.

Likewise, one or the other ego problems would crop up in their life. The tipping point came, when the lady aborted her pregnancy as Revenge, without even informing her husband.  When the husband came to know about this, he threw her out of his house.

She went to her parent’s home but they did not allow her to stay there.  She stayed at PG Hostel and started working from there.  They lived separately for 7 months, without any communication between them.

Under these circumstances the couple decided to Divorce each other. 

I was saddened by their Troubles and sincerely felt like helping them out.

Instead of suggesting Divorce, I explained them where they went wrong and how they could have handled the situations. Further I counseled them about the consequences of Divorce on their Life.

I asked them to forget the past and live together, without imposing any conditions on each other. They liked the idea and assured me that they will give their marriage one last chance.  

After about one year, they called me and thanked for my timely help.  They said that they were very happy and that they were expecting a Child. 

Dear Toastmasters, We get to see Successful Love Marriages as well as broken Love Marriages.  

If the Couples can give up their false egos and take decisions based on Mutual Respect and Understanding, the family courts wouldn’t have, as many Divorce Petitions as we see today.

Marriage is Sacrosanct and is built on Compromise and Sacrifice. After all Love Marriage is about the loved one & not about “I, ME or MYSEF”!

I conclude by quoting Dave Meurer:   A Great Marriage is not when the perfect couple' comes together. It is when an Imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.   

Handwriting Improvement Classes in Bangalore - Improve before Final Exams in 2011

How important is to have Better Handwriting in Tests and Exams for Students?


Beautiful Handwriting plays very very important role in Tests and Exams especially for Students of School Academics and College Students.  Since their Answer Scripts will be evaluated by the Teacher or Professor and after assessment they will be given Marks based on the Correct Answers, Neatness of the Answers, Flow of thoughts, Neat Handwriting.

How about writing Answers in the Language not known to the Evaluator?

As all of us know, in any Exams depending upon the subjects viz., whether Language Paper or any other common subjects has to be written in a Language which is prescribed by the School / College / University. 
An Illegible and Untidy Handwriting in the Answer Scripts is very much equivalent to the answers as written in a Different Language not known to the Evaluator.  Unless and Until the Evaluator is able to read What is Written by the Student, how can we expect him to assess our answers and provide Marks?

Hence, it is very much important for any Student to have Better and Neat Handwriting along with Speed in any Tests and Exams.  It is as much Important writing Neatly in School or at Home but also very much important to Write Neatly and Legibly in the Tests or Exams. That is the place where your Marks Secured will count for the Next Level.

We, at Sri Yogeashwari Institute of Handwriting provide Proper Training and Skills for the Students and Adults to write Neat and Legible Handwriting along with Speed Required for them depending the type of Tests and Exams they appear. 

We are one of the Leading Handwriting Institute in Bangalore and numerous Students have already been benefitted by joining our Classes and remarkably have changed their Writing Style, Speed and Beautiful Writings.

We offer Handwriting Classes in English and in Kannada. We have Regular - weekly 5 days class, Weekend Class - 2 hours each on Saturday and Sunday Morning Batches, Fast Track Classes - Weekdays as well as on Weekends.

Course Fee and Duration Details:


1) 30 Days Handwriting + Memory + Concentration
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3) 20 Days Handwriting Improvement Class for
     SSLC, I & II PUC Students and Adults. 
     (Fee applicable from Jan 2011 to March 2011 Only)            -      Rs.  950/-   


4) Fast Track Handwriting Improvement Course
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FREE HANDWRITING ANALYSIS NO.5 - BANGALORE - 22-12-2010

A Sample Handwriting Analysis of the above person.

1) The above person is very very Emotional in nature and would not like to express it to others.

2) The person has wide interest in Learning various things along with material possessions.

3) The person is generally Slow in thinking, decision making and in executing any work.

4) The person always likes the Truth and would like to communicate his True Feelings only at rare circumstances.

5) The person will be able to Concentrate on any tasks that he does.  However lack of self confidence and fear will cause some obstacles.

6) Basically the person is Shy and Introvert in nature.  He or she will find it difficulty in Inter-Personal Skills and will generally avoid Crowdy places and Strangers.  

NOTE: These are some of the Major Personality consisting of Nature, Emotional Behaviour, Attitude in the person's Life.  

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HOW to OVERCOME LAZINESS or POSTPONSMENT Habits - Personality Development Tips - Bangalore

Laziness or Postponement tendency is one of the most Important Hurdle or Obstacle to achieve SUCCESS in any task in the Life of any PERSON. Laziness may happen due different reasons. 


1) Lack of Knowledge in How to accomplish the Task or Goal. 
2)Task has to be Done but Not interested in the RESULT. 
3) Interested in the Result but somehow getting Postponed. 
4) Find No Monetary Gain in the completion of the TASK. 
5) Task itself is not related to me but Delegated to me by SOMEBODY. 
6) NO Deadline is SET for Completion of Work, hence postponing. 
7) Being Over-confident that work can be done at the LAST MOMENT. 


There may be many reasons for POSTPONEMENT. But if a PERSON Overcomes Postponement, he can get immense satisfaction of COMPLETION of a TASK not only for himself but for others who are involved in that. One can follow the following methods: 


1)Keep a Deadline for the Task. 
2)Divide the Task into minor things. 
3)Imagine the Task as if it is Completed and FEEL and IMAGINE its Fulfillment. 
4) Take the Help of others if required. 
5) First do the MOST URGENT TASK. Example: Last day to File Application for a Job. Can you postpone. 
6)Most of the TIME, minor TASKS take a LOT of our TIME. Hence do not attempt them. 
7)Write down your URGENT and MOST IMPORTANT task and do them. 
8)TIME is very Important and hence SET A DEADLINE for Yourself if not set by your PARENTS, BOSS or others. 
9) If you are DOWN MENTALLY to perform a TASK, go for a Walk and Refresh Yourself. 
10)Nobody can force you to do anything. You have to CHALLENGE yourself to COMPLETE the Task and HAVE PASSION. 


Every Action leads to REACTION i.e. RESULTS. NO Action, No Result. Hence Anxiety, Worry and Confusion will always be there with us. TAKE CHARGE. DO TASKS WITH PASSION. GET RESULTS.


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